|
Asking
for a Recommendation
by ResumeEdge.com -
The Net's Premier Resume Writing and Editing Service
Writing
a letter of recommendation requires considerable effort. Don't
just blurt out a request to a supervisor or instructor you
see walking down the hallway. Choose your letter writers carefully,
and plan out your timing and approach. Most importantly, don't
procrastinate.
1.
ASK SOMEONE WHO KNOWS YOU WELL
When deciding
on whom to ask for a letter of recommendation, don't simply
think of those classes or projects in which you have done well:
think of those instructors or supervisors who are most familiar
with your work and achievements. Admissions readers look for
evidence of the letter writer's familiarity with your work.
Without this type of evidence, the letter lacks credibility
and force.
College
and Graduate School Applicants: If you are applying to
an academic program, it's preferable to have letters of recommendation
from upper-level course instructors. Remember that, although
letters from senior professors are often more impressive
than ones penned by teaching assistants, most senior faculty
members receive large numbers of recommendation requests.
Depending on the size of your college, senior professors
sometimes must teach a wide variety of courses. As a result,
they seldom come into close contact with undergraduates.
While you might be tempted to request a letter from a tenured
academic superstar, refrain from doing so unless you know
the recommendation will be strong. An impressive signature
will not compensate for a lukewarm letter; in that case,
it's much better to have a stellar letter from a junior faculty
member of TA who knows you well and can comment on your specific
abilities and achievements. Keep in mind that sometimes a
professor will be willing to co-sign a letter written by
a TA, or will simply adapt and then sign a letter written
by a TA.
Business
School, Professional School, and Job Applicants: When
applying to business schools, professional schools, and jobs,
you should ideally have a letter from your current employer.
If you have not been at your current job for very long, you
might instead ask a former employer who is familiar with
your work and achievements. The same rule of thumb described
above applies here: although you might feel tempted to request
a letter from your company's CEO, refrain from doing so unless
that CEO is indeed knowledgeable about your accomplishments.
Your direct supervisors will generally be far more familiar
with your work history and style, drafting a far more effective
letter.
2.
ASK EARLY
College
and Graduate School Applicants: Don't wait until the
last minute. Instructors are invariably flooded with recommendation
requests at the end of the semester (as well as near application
deadlines), and you don't want your letter to end up just
one more item in a long To Do list. Likewise, be sure to
take into account foreseeable busy periods at work and common
holidays such as end-of-the-year vacations.
If you approach
your instructor a few months before the deadline, you will
avoid putting him or her under undue pressure, and you give
him/her plenty of time to ponder your performance. As the deadline
approaches, you can always send the letter of recommendation
writer a friendly reminder of the impending deadline. A quick
email or phone call should do the trick -- but don't err on
the side of pestering your letter writer.
A note on
timing: it's never a bad idea to begin cultivating relationships
with key instructors early on in your academic career. Participate
in class discussions, visit your instructors during office
hours, and show an active interest in their research. Catching
your instructor's attention doesn't necessarily make you a
sycophant, and standing out among your peers might prove very
useful later on when you actually request letters of recommendation.
Whether you
are in high school, college, or graduate school, don't wait
until your last year to ask for letters. If you took a fascinating
course your sophomore year and did particularly well in it,
ask your professor for a letter at the end of the semester
-- even if you don't plan on filling out applications until
your senior year. Most professors (or rather, their secretaries
and assistants) keep copies of letters filed or saved for future
reference; if you show up two years hence requesting a recommendation,
that professor will already have a written record of your accomplishments.
Business
School, Professional School, and Job Applicants: Whereas
academic letter writers usually have a great deal of practice
writing letters of recommendation, company employees -- even
in the higher echelons -- vary widely in their experiences
with recommendations. This is one among many great reasons
to get the process started as early as you can.
In addition,
it's a good idea to continuously build your recommendation
portfolio. Ask your employer or supervisor to write you a letter
whenever you leave a job, branch, or office (assuming you are
leaving in good terms) where you have a made a considerable
contribution to the firm. A copy of the letter will prove invaluable
later on if you ever decide to go for an MBA or apply for a
position that requires such a letter, and it will help your
by-then former employer to remember your specific qualities
and accomplishments.
3.
ASK PERSONALLY
When asking
someone to write you a letter of rec, don't simply send an
email or leave a voicemail message. It's to your advantage
to ask the person face-to-face; not only does this allow you
to clarify any doubts about the request, it automatically conveys
to the recommendation writer just how important this letter
is to you.
4.
VOLUNTEER INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR PLANS
About
yourself. Many instructors and supervisors deal with
dozens of recommendation requests every year. Even if you
are a stellar student or employee, they might not remember
that smashingly astute comment you made on Kant's Categorical
Imperative back in March, or the speed with which you smoothened
loan negotiations during that Korea project. Along with the
letter of recommendation form and materials (see below),
include a vivid reminder of your past accomplishments, particularly
those with which your instructor or supervisor is already
familiar. You might include a resume, a pared-down version
of your personal statement, and/or a relevant writing sample
(preferably one written for that particular instructor, and
one which earned you a high grade or evaluation).
About
Your Plans. If you intend to study agronomy and your
instructor is under the impression you are planning on pursuing
astronomy, your admissions readers might end up with either
a hysterical or quizzical letter of recommendation. Make
sure that your letter of recommendation writer is aware of
your plans, even if they seem hazy to you at this point.
State your plans clearly: "Mr. Guzman, I am applying
to Colby College." "Prof. Leary, I am applying
to the PhD program in biochemistry at the University of Iowa." "Hank,
I am applying to the Information Technology track of ISU's
MBA program." Write down your plans somewhere; that
way, Mr. Guzman, Prof. Leary, and Hank won't get confused.
Again, handing
in a concise outline or summary of your personal statement
is not a bad idea, especially if you focus on your achievements
in that instructor's class or under his/her supervision. Also
consider giving your instructor or supervisor a copy of your
resume, which should remind him/her that you are an individual
with both focus and broad interests.
5.
PROVIDE THE LETTER WRITER WITH ALL THE NECESSARY MATERIALS
Most applications
include specific forms for letter of recommendation writers.
They often ask for both a written-out statement and a series
of ranking or short questions. If you are asking your instructor
for several versions of the letter -- for instance, if you
are applying to a number of schools -- you might remind him/her
that the statement need not be written directly on the sheet
itself; it can simply be stapled to the form.
Always provide
your letter of recommendation writer with stamped envelopes.
If you are asking for multiple letters, it's a good idea to
organize all the forms in one folder and include a cover sheet
with a list of the schools for which you are requesting letters.
Remember to include envelopes of the appropriate size, and
overestimate the value of stamps (remember that the instructor
might attach extra pages to the form).
Some applications
require the instructor to return the letter to you in a sealed
envelope. Don't forget to ask the writer to sign across the
flap of the envelope.
Finally,
you might consider providing the letter writer with a diskette
for saving a copy of the letter. Chances are the letter writer
saves these letters on his hard-drive anyway, but a new diskette
might serve as a reminder of the importance of keeping a backfile.
Letters, after all, have been lost in the mail before -- not
to mention in admissions offices, which are flooded with mail
around each application deadline -- and there's always a chance
you might have to ask for a second copy to be sent out.
6.
WAIVE YOUR RIGHT TO READ THE LETTER
Federal Law
grants you access to your letters of recommendation, but many
applications include a form where you can waive your rights
to read the letter. We highly recommend that you waive your
right to read the letter when given the option to do so. Waiving
your right reassures the admissions readers that the instructor
has written a candid letter -- that is, without the bothersome
pressure of knowing that you might read it one day. Studies
have shown that confidential letters carry far more weight
with admissions readers.
In addition,
letter of recommendation writers are far more comfortable writing
a complete, candid letter when they know the applicant will
not have access to the text. If you fear that the letter writer
might not do justice to your achievements or might include
negative information -- well, that's a good sign you should
not be asking that person for a letter of recommendation.
7.
SEND A THANK-YOU NOTE
Always send
your letter of recommendation writer a thank-you note after
you know the letter has been sent out -- whether or not you
have heard from the school. Don't wait to long to do this:
a week or two is a good timeline. Of course, if you are eventually
admitted to that coveted program or land that sought-after
job, you might want to call up your letter writer to share
your good news and thank him/her once again. Never hurts to
quietly share your success, especially with those who helped
you to achieve it.
Note
for Business and Law School Applicants
The same
rules above apply for business and law school applications,
but these are often a bit morute aborate than regular college
or graduate degree applications. Many business and law school
applications spell out exactly what information they will be
looking for in the letter of recommendation forms. The instructions
will often include specific sub-questions such as:
Please provide
us with a concrete instance in which the applicant demonstrated
his or her leadership skills.
What
are the applicant's main strengths?
What are the applicant's main weaknesses?
What will this applicant contribute to our program?
Letters that
contain concrete, vivid anecdotes supporting their claims are
stronger than ones that fail to go beyond abstract generalizations.
Likewise -- and this is particularly true of that pesky question
about your weaknesses -- letters that balance achievement with
a candid assessment of perceived weaknesses are far more convincing
than letters that contain only superlative comments. Admissions
readers, even those at the top schools, are not interested
in flawless candidates: because flawless candidates don't exist.
They are interested in people who are willing to tackle challenges
and learn from their mistakes; thus, the best b-school letters
of recommendation balance praise, candidness, concrete evidence,
and convey both focus, breadth, enthusiasm, and resilience.
|